Why compare?

People tend to compare a lot…and I mean A LOT.

Their cars, their houses, their partners, their children….

What I don’t get is why??? Why would you compare a person with another one? Is like comparing an elephant with a fish… get it?

So, ever since I became a mom, I get a lot of ” just wait and see that your child will do this and do that, and the other one”…

Now my question is: how the fuck do you know? ( everyone,please pardon my language because I never swear but this is an exception…a very big one in fact).

Have you met my kid? Do you know what kind of behaviour does he have?

Oh, and the other thing…funny story actually …or maybe not so funny after all.

I have a couple of “friends” who happens to also have children πŸ™‚

And whenever we meet, we always ask each other about our kids( I believe it’s customery) . So, I always wait and listen what they have to say, but whenever is my turn, some of them do stuff like…” oh, but kid didn’t do that at that age…is it NORMAL?” , or ” oh, see( kids name)? you have do you it too, otherwise her sonΒ will be better than you.”

And then, in my mind I say again…what the fuck?

People, love your children and stop comparing them. Get the point that they are unique, and beautiful and smart in their own way, and so is every single person on this planet.

So why not enjoy that uniquity? It’s the most beautiful thing, I believe πŸ™‚

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Writing his story :)

Soo, my baby boy loves stories….he’s only 6 months old, but we’ve already read 45 books together…and what amazes me is that he sits in his chair even for an hour and listens( now that’s what I call patience)…

The last few days I kept searching for books to buy for him,and even though I found many amazing ones, I just felt like I didn’t find THE BOOK…

…And this lead me to the idea of writing him one. It wouldn’t be the first, since his dad got one too πŸ˜€

So I took a piece of paper, a pencil and my drawings stuff and started ^_^

To be very honest,I am very excited and thrilled to write him this book…just imagining that, when he’ll be older and will read it,and will say,”Hey mommy, this is my book. It is written on the front page” For the greatest miracle life holds, our son, For Eric”…it actually makes me wanna cry ^_^

So wish me luck and as soon as is done, I will show it to you all πŸ™‚

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(as I was saying πŸ™‚ )

 

How to make time,when you don’t have time :)

Well,well,well…

Time…what an interesting idea.

How do I make time for all the things I want to do,or have to do, when all my time is according to a schedule(baby’s schedule obviously ^_^ )?

Simple πŸ™‚

You take all the things you liked to do before, and do them with your baby.

Loved to sleep? Eric sleeps 3-4 times a day..therefore, I sleep more than enough.

Loved to take walks? Well, what better way to enjoy a walk than with him in my arms(big fans of baby carrier πŸ™‚ )

Loved to read? We read together 1-2 books a day(already ordered 20 more since we finished the 50 we have).

Sing, dance and paint?…It’s a thrill to do it all together.

I heard soo many times around me “Just wait and see when the baby comes.He’ll take all your energy out of you”….

Well, on the contrary…he give me, gives us energy. And more than that, we enjoy doing everything together. πŸ™‚

He loves playing with his toys(as a matter of fact,so do we πŸ˜€ ), and is more than happy to fall asleep in my arms. Loves going to the park with his daddy, and discover trees,and birds, and apparently cars πŸ™‚

His soo much more than we ever thought.

He’s the most amazing,extraordinary and wonderful baby I have ever seen. And I just love the sound of his voice when he says mommy and daddy.

So, as it turns out, we’ve got plenty of time to even get bored( but that rarely happens as we have all sorts of activities).

The most important thing is to think positive about the whole experience,and instead of being all ” ah, I’m soo tired/ the baby wants to do this and that and I have better things to do”, just think how wonderful is to have a healthy baby, and the fact that you can spend time with him/her.

Don’t make it sound like a punishment,but change your persepctive.

You’ll be surprised of the changes that follow πŸ™‚

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